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Princess Abida Sultan, popularly known as Bia Hazur, was
born in Bhopal 1913 to Nawab Hamidullah Khan of the princely state
of Bhopal. She was the eldest of his three daughters and her grandmother,
H.H. Sultan Jehan Begum, was the ruler of Bhopal at the time. She
later abdicated her position in favour of her son, and the Princess
was recognised as his heir apparent at the age of 15. Bhopal was
the only one of the princely states to be ruled by women for over
a century and the Begums of Bhopal proved to be bold and able administrators.
Abida Sultan was brought up by her grandmother, the fourth and last
Begum of Bhopal. Her mother was only 13 years of age and her father,
Nawab Mohammad Hamidullah Khan was 19, and still a student at Aligarh
University. Encouraged by her father, an urbane and sporting person,
the Princess grew up to be the most daring and courageous of the
bold women of Bhopal.
Traditionally, children were expected to start learning the Quran
at the age of four years, four months and four days. With a Bismillah
ceremony on New Year's day, 1918, Abida was woken up before dawn
to perform fajr prayers. Endless Quran lessons were given under
a kerosene lamp. For the slightest mistake she was punished. At
the age of six, she completed the Arabic version of the Quran and
before her eighth birthday, earned her second distinction, completing
the translation or lafzi tarjuma of the whole Quran. There were
40 days of celebrations, mehndi ceremonies, endless presents were
given and also received. The only present that interested her was
a lovely horse.
Once she finished the translation, she had tutors for English and
French, Persian and Arabic, history and geography, math, Quran,
Hadith, Fiqah and then outdoor games and sports. She would start
her day at 5 am with Namaz and Quran, and carry on till bedtime
at nine pm, with no break.
The princess was an indomitable tomboy and it was not an easy task
for her grandmother to educate her. She took no interest in feminine
pursuits and preferred the rough and tumble of sports and outdoor
games. The palace retainers, clerks, dhobis and tailors made up
her hockey team, and they also played in the Bhopal polo team. Some
of these players were later selected for All India teams.
On weekends, a carpenter and a sunaar came to teach her their trades,
and she also learnt patta binnaut, the art of self-defence in sword
fencing, with another ustad.
Girls were expected to learn to ride from early childhood and the
princess lost no opportunity to gallop out of sight. Her riding
trainer, Chinar Singh, was exasperated with the princess. Once she
wore a Jaipuri lehriya on her head to imitate him, stuck a beard
on, and bolted on her horse with Chinar Singh following her, yelling
"Ya Ali Madad, Yaseen Ya Mohammad, Rajput ki laaj hai."
He tried to stop her but could not catch up and she got away to
the delight of the spectators.
During her grandmother's long absences, the young princess learnt
to drive and went tearing around in a car propped up with cushions,
since her legs were far too short to reach the pedals.
The princess and her two sisters were brought up in a frugal, spartan
style by their grandmother, Sultan Jehan Begum, who was known as
Sarkar Amman in the family. Her pocket money of five rupees a month
was saved and with it the princess bought a saxophone. In addition
to the piano, violin and mandolin provided by her grandmother, proficiency
on the saxophone was thus added to her command over musical instruments.
The family formed their own band, with Beena, the Princess mother,
on the piano and the rest playing mandolins, violin, saxophone and
even kitchen utensils. The princess had also done correspondence
courses on mechanics, bookkeeping and accountancy and was often
found under her car in dungarees, fixing the engine.
In India, she learnt to fly at the flying club and was considered
to be one of the best fliers who was allowed to perform aerobatics.
Tap dancing was also a favourite pastime.
She started training for polo, as well as tent pegging with her
father's team. Princess Abida was also obsessed with squash. She
was coached by Charles Reed, a professional player and two markers,
Waris Khan and Mahabat Khan. She became the All India Women's Squash
Champion.
Riding and shooting had equal importance in the royal family. They
were taught that every Pathan must be a good marksman. At a young
age, Abida began to hunt with an air gun, collecting pigeons and
sparrows.
Very proudly, her grandmother used to send a portion of the princess's
shikaar to the father's 'mardana' side, to show that she was a good
shikari. Before being allowed to handle a rifle, the princess had
to do military exercises and pass the marksmanship tests. Every
morning the military instructors took the princess and her younger
sisters to practice on the range. Her marksmanship was then put
to test in the jungles, starting with deer, sambar and panther,
until she finally reached the stage of shooting tigers. Princess
Abida had no fear of anything and even went after a wounded tiger.
The princess eventually shot 73 tigers over a span of 20 years.
Chiklode, a country retreat, was Hamidullah Khan's favourite shikargah.
The princesses went to Chiklode on horseback, along with their father
and his staff. Completing a journey in bright moonlight through
dense jungles, they reached a shikar camp once, only to discover
that they were to live there in a well, a dry well covered with
a shamiana being the coolest spot. This was the jungle abode of
the princess, her sisters, mother and grandmother.
While on a visit to Cooch Bihar along with her mother, who was like
a friend and elder sister, she started clandestine visits to the
cinema. One day, they were at the movies when all of a sudden Sarkar
Amman walked in and saw them. She shouted the house down, the manager
had to turn on the lights and stop the show to find out the cause
of this noise. When the lights came on, what they saw was an apparition
draped from head to toe in a burqa with a diamond tiara on her head.
Shaking her walking stick at the girls, she herded them back home.
During their stay in Cooch Bihar, the Maharani introduced her to
fox hunts, where the princess was mostly found in the ditch. About
11 years old at that time, she was going over hurdles and winning
second prizes which was not good enough. Her father was not going
to be happy with anything but perfection!
Shikar in Bhopal was not a sport or a pastime, it was a way of life.
Bhopal was a well known haven for shikaris, and hunting for tigers
was a major accomplishment for the royal family. From the princess's
earliest childhood, she accompanied her elders to shikar camps.
For days on end they would live in tents and travel on bullock carts.
Her father, who was a superb marksman and fearless hunter encouraged
her to undertake daring sorties to the jungles with trained shikaris,
cars fitted for shikar and reserved shikargahs. The princess would
venture into the jungle at night in search of the tiger and seldom
returned empty-handed.
When the princess was 18 years old, she accompanied Sarkar Amman
to London for the coronation. Being underage, she was not allowed
to drive there. She asked Sarkar Amman to buy her a horse, but the
brief canters in London were tame and monotonous compared to the
spirited rides with Indian polo ponies. In London, a piano teacher
from the Royal Academy gave her daily lessons and for violin, a
Mrs Thompson came to coach.
While in London, all three sisters were enrolled as Girl Guides
and Brownies. By then, Quran and other conventional subjects had
gone into cold storage. The Guides uniform was altered for them,
and they wore Highland kilts over tight white stockings when they
were sent out on the streets to sell poppies on 'Poppy Day.'
In London, the princess picked up jazz by ear and played with her
father. She was in her element banging away at the drums or playing
the latest jazz hits on the piano.
Sarkar Amman had abdicated in favour of her son Hamidullah Khan,
who became the first male ruler of Bhopal, after 107 years of women's
rule. The family then went back to Bhopal. Abida Sultan was 13 years
of age , and was made to wear the burqa while she was looking forward
to her horses and guns.
The princess was used to jumping off the train before it came to
a stop to buy puris and saag at the station. But now, donning a
burqa, she felt like a prisoner. Even the purdah, however, did not
deter her from riding. She would steal up to the tongas, unbridle
the ponies and gallop away.
One day while she was pillow fighting with her sisters, Sarkar Amman
asked her to get ready for her nikah. She kept asking the maids
whose nikah it was and then during the ceremony created an uproar
by answering, "Yes, I do," loud and clear to the mullah,
shocking the other women in the room.
The princess had long hair upto her waist, but one day decided to
chop off her hair. Ever since that time till the day she died, she
kept short hair. Sarkar Amman fainted when she saw the Princess
with her hair cropped.
As heir apparent at 15 years of age, Princess Abida Sultan was ready
to take military parades and accompanied her father, now ruler of
Bhopal, on his official tours. In her training as heir apparent
she was supposed to learn Hindi and go out in the fields with the
patwari to learn how to measure the lands.
The princess decided to give up the purdah, with the encouragement
of her father. Sarkar Amman was disturbed at first, then at the
ripe old age of 68, took off the burqa herself.
On October 2, 1950, the princess arrived in Karachi. She had made
the decision to leave her family, hearth and heritage, for Jinnah's
'Promised Land.' Her only son Shaharyar was asked by his grandfather,
the ruler of Bhopal, to come back and claim his rights, as he wanted
the succession to remain with the rightful heirs. Shaharyar refused
and decided to stay on with his mother in Pakistan.
He was sent to a military school where he had to learn to shoot,
swim rivers and climb trees. Shaharyar loved shikar until he left
Bhopal and then it dawned on him that it was terrible to kill animals.
Abida's son joined the foreign service and served as foreign secretary
and ambassador to France.
Hussain Shaheed Suhrawardy chose the princess to accompany the Pakistani
delegation to China. Mr. Suhrawardy mentioned to the Chinese leaders
that Princess Abida was an expert markswoman and had shot 73 tigers.
The defence minister and his colleagues were intrigued and asked
her if she would like to try some target-shooting at the Chinese
army's shooting range. She was not going to duck such a challenge,
even though she had not handled a rifle since she came to Pakistan.
At the range the princess took the army sniper's position, which
she had been taught as part of her military training in Bhopal.
While she had supported Fatima Jinnah in her campaign against Ayub
Khan, Abida Sultan withdrew from public life to become a virtual
recluse. Princess Abida Sultan's simple and peaceful abode in Malir
in which she lived without electricity for eight years, was her
home for over 50 years.
Her yearning for sport and adventure was restricted in Pakistan;
there was no big game shikar and she had no horses to indulge her
passion for polo and riding, so she turned to squash, with the legendary
Roshan Khan.
Though she could not play polo in Karachi, she umpired polo matches.
She could not practice hockey or cricket as it was unthinkable for
a woman to play with men. So she concentrated on squash and became
a better player than she had been when she had won the women's title
in Bombay in 1949. While in Bhopal, hours had been spent in the
swimming pool at home; in Karachi, the Princess swam in the pool
at the Grand Hotel, Malir.
Soon after the princess arrived in Karachi, she was asked by Essa
Jaffer, the agent for the Skoda Motor Car company, if she would
be the chief guest and give away the prizes at his motor show. She
accepted on condition that she would be allowed to perform a stunt
in the new model herself. At the Karachi polo ground, in front of
a large crowd, without any experience of stunt driving, the princess
raced the Skoda several times over a wooden platform, thrilling
the spectators.
Music remained a passion. The princess learnt the sitar with Master
Ziauddin, who later became the head of the orchestra at the PIA
Arts academy. She loved to play the tabla and dholak and sang and
danced with it. At her grandson Ali's wedding in Malir, she played
the dholak and made everyone sing along.
She also played the sitar, with her son Shaharyar on the tabla.
She preferred classical music but would also play light film tunes
on the harmonium. She had an ear for music and could pick up any
tune and reproduce it.
In Pakistan, the Princess played cricket at the Gymkhana Club with
Iskander Mirza and at the Napier Barracks. Bia never played her
matches with women, because she didn't find it challenging enough.
Hassan Mian recalls her going for a swim, playing tennis and target
shooting when she visited him in Islamabad at the age of 70.
At 86, she drove alone all the way from Malir to condole with Begum
Salma Ahmad at her daughter's death. A year later, she drove to
a hospital in Gulshan-i-Iqbal to get a cataract removed from her
eye. After the surgery was performed, she rested for a couple of
hours and drove back home alone.
The princess remained completely fearless and never had any qualms
about living on her own in a remote farm in Malir. A man once came
into the compound of her house and asked her for a glass of water.
By the looks of the man, she realised there was something wrong.
She caught hold of his hand and would not let go. The princess had
a strong grip and the man tried to wrench himself free but to no
avail. All the servants came running, tied him up and called for
the police. She was later informed that the man was a murderer and
escaped convict.
Bia Hazur never learnt to be afraid even in the new circumstances
she found herself in. She always slept by herself in the verandah
of her house, with a gun by her side. She passed away peacefully
in Karachi, her adopted home, on the 11th of May.
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