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Heera
Mandi. For centuries these two words have conjured up images of
the forbidden mysterious world of the courtesan. The narrow alleys
of Lahores walled city was once the traditional playground
of the scions of Punjabs powerful feudal families. Lured by
the sound of the ghungroos, the haunting love-songs and the legendary
beauties behind the trellised curtained balconies of Heera Mandi,
there were manyho left their hearts at the feet of the dancing girls
of Lahore.
Today,
only the lowest tier in the courtesan hierarchy live and dance in
Heera Mandi. The celebrated dancing girls and their powerful patrons
have long moved on to up-market residential areas,taking with them
the romance and allure that cloaked the sleazy, squalid reality
of Heera Mandi.
Sociologist
Louise Brown spent four years living in Heera Mandi and her book,
The Dancing Girls of Lahore, chronicles the dreams and desperation
of life in Heera Mandi through the eyes of one Lahori dancing girl
Maha and her family. It is an intimate, rivetting and poignant
study that vividly captures the essence and soul of Lahores
walled city.
Maha,
a classically trained dancing girl, is in her mid-thirties and has
five children from her various relationships. When she was 12, Maha
gave up her
virginity to an Arab Sheikh for two lakh rupees. She says the man
was Sheikh Zayed. Five children down the line, Maha is overweight
and riddled with insecurity,
but still simmers with a magnetic sensuality. She doesnt dance
in the kothas anymore because she is the second wife of Adnan, who
has now grown tired of his
Heera Mandi "wife." With financial support from Adnan
drying up, Maha faces the dilemma of staying with her indifferent
husband or reentering Heera Mandi. Both choices are doomed.
Maha
drowns her hopeless existence with bottles of Corex, a strong codeine
cough syrup. She swigs down a bottle in seconds and spends most
of the day in a drowsy stupor as the day that her own daughters
will have to enter the trade draws closer
"I think of
the cycles of unhappiness emanating from Mahas misery: cycles
that are eating up her children and will probably consume their
children in turn."
Life in Heera Mandi has its own complex social structure.
The traditional courtesan tribe, the Kanjars, follow a strict code
of conduct and look upon
new entrants with contempt. The old Kanjar women ran a matriarchal
household where they reigned supreme. Men were just short-term guests.
Today, the role of the Kanjar women has been taken over by professional
pimps and only a few descendants of the Kanjars, like Maha, still
control their own destiny.
"A
competive hierarchy operates in Heera Mandi
thousands of women
sell sex in the mohalla, but they inhabit separate social worlds.
The elite are "A" class: young, beautiful with rich clients
middle-ranking
women fall into the "B" category. The cheapest women,
like those in Tibbi Gali are "C" category"
the most despised of the despised. The dregs of Heera Mandi live
and practice their trade in Tibbi Gali. Here men can buy sex for
as little as 30 rupees. "Women lean against door frames, lie
on rope beds
they dont look like women in other parts
of Heera Mandi: there women are clearly for sale. Nazia wears the
thickest makeup I have ever seen. It forms a pink-white mask
the layers building up for months. Its hard to identity individual
teeth because theyre so heavily furred by plaque and encrusted
with food
in an hour Nazia has entertained five young men
the turnaround time is fast perhaps five or ten minutes
Nazias
bright mask is undisturbed by whatever goes on in the back room."
The
children of Heera Mandi have no official fathers or family name,
so authentic documentation is almost impossible. "When Heera
Mandis fatherless children encounter the bureaucratic world,
Iqbal signs their papers to prove that these semiliterate and illiterate
people are real." Iqbal Hussain is the son of a courtesan,
but also one of Pakistans leading artists and a professor
at the National College of Arts. "To the people who live beyond
the mohalla, he will always be the tough, streetwise son of a courtesan
who grew up in a brothel and carried a gun to college
We
are the same, he says
I dont know who my
father was either. Perhaps he was a painter too. "
Today,
Iqbal runs a restaurant in his home in Heera Mandi where Lahores
Prada and Gucci clad social elite go for some acceptable forbidden
thrills. "Theres
something exciting and illicit about coming here, something that
makes respectable Pakistani pulses race
as they peep into
the courtyard into the dangerous scandal that is Heera Mandi."
Louise Brown writes with an evocative compassion of the
world of Heera Mandi and the joy and love that lights up the filthiest,
meanest hovel. There is the dignity of Tariq, the Christian sweeper,
looked down upon by even the lowest prostitute; the young hijra
Tasneem used and abused, but who gives her best dancing outfit to
Louise; Nazia, the Tibbi Galli prostitute, who wants to make Brown
look like "a pretty lady"; Mahas daughters, Nena,
Nisha and Ariba who can never fall in love, who know that their
mother has no option but to barter them again and again to the highest
bidder.
In the midst of unimaginable squalor and despair are moments
of heartbreaking compassion, humanity, that inimitable brand of
earthy Lahori humour and the generosity of spirit that colour the
cruel cycle of life in Lahores ancient pleasure district.
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