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The
fate of a 12-year-old Scottish girl at the centre of an abduction
row is still in limbo. Even her name hangs in the balance. The young
girl at the centre of the controversy says she doesn't like to be
called Molly Campbell and wants to retain her Muslim name, Misbah
Iram Rana. But the fact remains that it is not up to her to decide.
Though she could pass as being much older, Molly is still legally
a minor, and as such, she has to wait a few weeks until a Pakistani
court in Lahore decides which of the two names she is allowed to
retain.
What
started as a domestic battle between Sajjad Ahmed, Molly's Pakistani
father, and Louise Anne Fairley, her Scottish mother, has twisted
and turned into an issue that has attracted international attention.
The controversy started last month when Misbah disappeared from
her school on the isle of Lewis. Her mother, also her legal guardian,
gave a tearful news conference urging her daughter to come back.
Ms Fairley charged her ex-husband with kidnapping Molly and taking
her to Pakistan, where, she alleged, he would force her into an
arranged marriage with a "25-year-old man."
A
huge debate erupted in newspaper Op-Ed pages and Internet chat rooms.
Unsurprisingly, the majority of voices have been critical of the
Muslim community: Muslims living in the west and in Pakistan have
been charged with "marrying off" their daughters by force.
However,
the controversy exploded to new levels when Sajjad Ahmed surfaced.
Glasgow MP Mohammed Sarwar came to Lahore, met Molly and her father
and convinced Ahmed to allow his daughter to set the facts straight
with the media. Misbah brushed aside all the charges levelled by
her mother and told the media that she has neither been kidnapped
nor has she been forced to marry anyone. "I want to retain
my Islamic name, Misbah, and do not want to be called by my English
name, Molly," she said. She then hugged and kissed her father,
declaring that she wanted to stay with her daddy in Lahore "forever."
Molly
confirms that she has spoken to her mother several times since the
media row erupted in Lahore and says that she has informed her mom
about her intentions. "I know that she will miss me, but I
do not plan to return and live with her," Misbah said, as she
faced the cameras.
Misbah's father, sporting a thick beard and a crisp, white
shalwar kameez, says his ex-wife used cheap methods to malign him
by saying that he had plans to marry Misbah off at such a tender
age. "What shall I say to this rubbish? In fact, my daughter
is highly traumatised to hear all this," Ahmed told Newsline,
as he parked in the huge car porch of his newly built two-storey
house in an uptown Lahore locality.
Despite
arranging for Molly to travel 4,500 miles to Pakistan to be reunited
with him, Ahmed has not been able to house his own daughter in his
comfortable new home. Fearing for her security, he arranged for
Molly to stay with relatives at an unknown location in Lahore.
Ahmed, a member of Tablighi Jamaat, was 23 when he met Louise Campbell
at a market in Glasgow over 20 years ago. She was just 16 at the
time and converted to Islam and adopted a Muslim name: Sheza Ahmed
Rana. They married in 1984. Together Ahmed and Fairley had four
children: Tehmina, Adam, Omar and Misbah.
Ahmed
claims that after the marriage collapsed, his ex-wife voluntarily
gave up guardianship of the children, allowing them all to stay
with him. "In fact, when we got divorced, I told her to keep
all the children with her because I feared I may not be able to
give them the best. But she handed over all the children to me,
saying that she didn't care." However, eventually, Ahmed found
it tough to raise the kids single-handedly in Scotland, and he chose
to return to Pakistan with all his four children in tow.
"I
used to take them every year to the UK, so that they could meet
their mother, but two years after the divorce, she told the children
that she wanted them to stay with her in the UK." Ahmed claims,
"When the children told me about their mom's decision, I told
them that it is up to them. If they wish to stay with their mom,
I wouldn't resist."
But
with the passage of time, says Ahmed, his ex-wife found herself
a new boyfriend and started mistreating the children. Three of the
four children were old enough to leave home of their own free will,
but the youngest, Molly, was forced to remain with her mother. A
legal battle over Molly's custody ensued. Ms. Fairley won.
Soon afterwards, about 18 months ago, says Ahmed, Fairley, together
with their daughter, left Glasgow and moved to Drummore, without
informing him. Ahmed tracked her down, but as soon as he did that,
she grabbed Molly and moved again. This time they set up home in
Lewis. "Lousie got Misbah enrolled in school under the pseudonym
of Molly Campbell," he alleges, "so that I could not find
her." And it worked, for a while. "I was only able to
find her a couple of months ago. And only after a lot of effort."
Ahmed's
eldest daughter, Tehmina, went to Lewis to meet Molly. Molly confessed
to being unhappy and said she wanted to be reunited with her father
and siblings. "Misbah told Tehmina that she didn't like the
attitude of her mother's boyfriend, She complained that he didn't
treat her well," recounts Ahmed. Tehmina promptly helped her
little sister arrange her travel documents and they travelled back
to Pakistan together.
Now,
says Ahmed, he is ready to fight any legal battle to secure his
daughter's custody. He claims, though, that his goal is not to keep
the children away from their mother. "I'll buy her a computer
so that she can stay in touch with her mom. I have not forbidden
her from calling either and will allow her to go to the UK whenever
she wants to."
Ahmed believes that
he has not committed any crime by bringing her to Pakistan without
taking the court in Glasgow into confidence. "As a father I
have to give the best to my children. It was not me who kidnapped
my daughter, but it was she who kidnapped Misbah from me,"
he says. "My children were born Muslim, and, in fact, my wife
too converted to Islam." And according to Ahmed, Fairley's
conversion was more than one of convenience. "She used to say
her prayers five times a day and had performed Hajj and Umrah, but
now she is living with someone outside of marriage and has converted
back to Christianity."
According
to Ahmed, the whole issue has become one of religion. "She
wants Misbah to convert to Christianity too. That is the real issue.
She is not interested in Misbah's welfare," he alleges. "If
she was concerned about the welfare of her children, then why is
she not asking for the custody of the other three children? They
are also born from the same marriage. But she knows that she cannot
convert them to Christianity because they are mature. Misbah is
young, so she thinks she can be manipulated."
Molly
has publicly spoken out too. In the glare of the media, she pleaded
with her mom and broke down crying. "I want to live with my
father. It is unfair that I should not be given a choice to decide
my life."
In
fact, the 12-year-old is distraught about returning to the UK. But
it is not her mother who she is avoiding. "I do not like him,"
says Molly about her mother's new partner. "He abuses Muslims.
He even abuses my Muslim father whenever he gets drunk."
For
now though, Molly's future remains very unclear. Despite, the Glasgow
court decision that granted Fairley custody of Molly, Ahmed still
managed to attain interim custody until the courts give their judgement.
Pakistan
has not signed an extradition treaty with the UK government, but
in January 2003, judges from Pakistan and the UK did sign a "judicial
protocol." According to this agreement, each country is bound
to return abducted children to the country where they normally live,
without regard to the nationality, culture or religion of the parents.
But
some legal experts in Pakistan say that this protocol has not been
ratified. "It is just an agreement that has no legal standing
and has not yet been signed by both governments," says Asma
Jahangir, the renowned humanrights activist. However, she says,
Pakistan is a signatory to the Hague convention, according to which
Pakistan is supposed to honour the earlier judgement given by the
UK court. "He has kidnapped his daughter illegally without
taking the court into confidence," Jahangir continues, "if
he wanted to take custody of Molly, he should have fought it out
in the courts in the UK, rather than bringing her here secretively."
Still,
other factors may work in Ahmed's favour. Many legal experts in
Pakistan say that it usually takes ages for the courts in Pakistan
to decide child custody cases. "And when the girl herself has
said that she has not been kidnapped and has come here of her own
free will, it means that the charge of kidnapping cannot stand,"
says a lawyer.
Secondly,
since the issue has become highly politicised, it will be equally
difficult for the judges to give a decision in favour of the mother.
Some experts also suggest that given that the judges have to look
at the child's welfare, and given that Fairley, who lives in the
UK and has reverted to Christianity, will not provide an Islamic
upbringing to Misbah, the case is weighted against Fairley.
Dr.
Abdul Basit, who is providing legal assistance to Ahmed, says that
according to Islamic Sharia law, the apostate has no rights. "Given
that Misbah's mother has converted from Christianity to Islam, this
has effectively dashed her hopes to retain the child's custody,"
he said. Misbah was born Muslim, says Dr. Basit, and thus, the courts
must take into consideration the upbringing of the child in the
Islamic tradition. "If we go by the book, or Islamic Sharia
law practiced in Pakistan, Fairley cannot be given custody of Misbah,"
he explained.
However,
Louise Anne Fairley, has moved the Lahore High Court in a writ petition
seeking custody of her daughter. Through advocates Zahid Naseem
and Naheeda Mahboob, she filed a petition that stated that her 12-year
old daughter was illegally removed from her lawful custody on August
28 by her ex-husband despite a restraining order issued by Scottish
police.
The
court has issued pre-admission notices to the petitioner's former
husband, Ahmed, and daughter Tehmina, asking them to submit their
reply by September 26.
The
same court on September 8, restrained the Punjab police from arresting
the teenaged British national and handing her over to a third party
until a local guardian court decided the matter.
Whatever
the final outcome of the case, the media frenzy is sure to continue
till the final judgement.
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